He doesn't have to be at the birth if you think it will bother you...but if you want him to willingly sign the birth certificate, I think you 2 might have to reach a consensus....

Nope. It's ultimately your choice. My ex wanted Damien as a boy name (luckily I found out it's a girl) and I told him flat out no. He pitched a fit. Oh well. I'm the one pushing it out and raising your child, not you (him), so I told him to basically suck it up buttercup lol

How is he going to fight you picking a name?? That just sounds ridiculous!