my husband hardly ever talked to my belly or touches my belly, he also has been distant from me here…

Mines doing the same thing and I checked him and let him know how I was feeling about everything

I try to talk to him and tell him and he doesn't seem interested or doesn't even acknowledge I'm talking or the major one that erks me is he will change the subject I feel so heartbroken and unloved

My husband is the same way, he doesn't care to feel baby move around and isn't patient enough to wait for him when I do convince him to feel him (baby stops when he puts his hand on him haha) he was a lot more interested with our first. I was offended at first and kinda bummed he wasn't excited but I know he's excited and just has a different way of showing it. Sometimes he will randomly place his hand on my belly, or lay his head in my lap and at those times I feel a little reassurance he's not just a huge prude all the time lol

mine use to do those thing but has recently stopped and idk wat to do, I'm afraid it'll cause a fight or something if I say anything about it to him, I'm worried he isn't in love with me anymore

my husband was the same way with the first. turned out he was worried. I finally had to just flat out ask him. he was involved with picking the name and went to 1 appointment with me. I was concerned because of it. turned out to be nothing. now we are pregnancy #3, he is excited and likes feeling baby but all decisions except the name are left to me. he says, just because he doesn't care what color the bedding is or where the baby sleeps doesn't mean anything - he just figures that is my preference and he is happy/excited as long as baby and I are both healthy. so try not too get too bummed. they all handle it differently. 😊❤