I think I want a divorce... I've been home since 4 and my husband was home around 12. He has a PS4 and he's been playing…
I think I want a divorce... I've been home since 4 and my husband was home around 12. He has a PS4 and he's been playing it since he got home. The house is a mess, he didn't even want to eat dinner with me, wouldn't take a shower with me. After my shower, I sat next to him and put lotion on this and that and he continued playing the game. It's now 9:30 where I am and I have moved to the couch because I couldn't listen to another second of grand theft auto. I'm sitting on the couch and have been for a good 40 minutes and he hasn't came to check on me, or anything. He's still playing his game. I don't feel loved... I feel so broken because it's like he doesn't even care. What do I do??
missing21user·
Мама сына-младенца
My boyfriend makes me feel that way sometimes too :/ try to tell him how you are feeling.
Kallie bedingfield·
В ожидании первенца
I've tried. I've made comments like are you just going to play the game all night? And this and that. I'm not sure I can do this anymore. @abelsmama
Bee🐝 ·
Мама сына (1 год), беременна (13 нед.)
If you don't mind me saying...you shouldn't give hints. Tell him exactly what you want and how you feel.
Bee🐝 ·
Мама сына (1 год), беременна (13 нед.)
Don't make decisions when you're mad. Sometimes they really don't know what to do and they don't know how to read between lines.
Natalie Viands·
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Same 🙄 my boyfriend seems to not care about ANYTHING but video games..
Haley Dawn·
Мама сына (3 года), беременна (32 нед.)
yeah men don't take hints very well, tell him that u want to spend time with him that u feel unloved and u want him to pay more attention to you then to that ps4
Katerina Brown·
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I had that with a guy (mind you i am a gamer too) and i just unplugged the system and told him either we spend time together or take the damn xbox and leave.
Maggie·
Мама подростка
I know how you feel but I rather my man be inside and play the game than out with his buddies if u know what I mean and u need to communicate.
I gave mine a little distance and after he played in asked him how was it and we got in to a convo
lucylue·
I been married for almost 7yrs and GIRL let me tell ya..at the beginning of the relationship it was hard for us to communicate as a couple,he played 24/7 I HATED soccer.he played ps3 soccer,watched soccer games,and even physically played it,and no attention for me! we would get into it ALL the time..Let him know you need attention,and LOVE,specially now!sometimes MEN need to be told.
Kallie bedingfield·
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Thanks everyone for the feed back! I'm going to go in there and let him know that I don't feel wanted. Hopefully he'll or down the controller. I've even asked him that after I get home, if he will stop playing but he thought I was joking. @chasinghappiness @haleylove2011 @katt18 @lucylue @maggie_2016 @natalieviands
lucylue·
sometimes the tone of voice always makes a diffrence OR change the way you ask him for something..for ex with my hubby if I'm upset kz he's been home and nothings been done I'll say:Babe do you mind starting dishes while I start cooking for us to have dinner pls. (it makes him feel like we're in it together as team work,of coarse I'm Hella upset kz my back is killing me but I also wanna let me know if I'm gna start cooking I don't wanna see his but on the couch while I bust my but off cooking)
Kallie bedingfield·
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@lucylue, I'll try that next time. Thank you so much!