you have just summed up how I am feeling and no husband says I shouldnt be negative xx my first baby but had a miscarriage in April xx

thanks for the replies... and yeah this will be my first, its just a strange feeling that it wont happen. i cant even imagine myself giving birth, when i feel him moving i dont even tell my partner anymore because hes tried watching or feeling for movement in the past and the baby seems to stop everytime, so i feel like he thinks im lying about it. I know its definately moving because ive started to see my belly moving from the outside now. if people ask me anything about the pregnancy i cant help but brush the conversation off because it makes me feel embarrassed. I wont wear anything other than hoodies to try and hide what bump i have, i just dont know whats wrong with me lol. My mum said i should be enjoying it but i dont feel joyful at all i feel unsure and worried that something might go wrong xx

I guess its normal to think this way when you having ur first one, I am in my 25 weeks and hes due on 15th April. I do feel the same thing, fear is constant. won't blv I dont even look at babies stuff as of now, buying is still no where near 😞 coz of superstitious family memebers .. and top of that there are few days when I dont feel pregnant at all 😕 but night defo reminds me that I am carrying a nugget inside me.. 😄 Hope we all feel real when we meet are miracles .. 😊😊😊

in the same and I'm almost 27 weeks my boy due on 9th april. im sure its normal to feel this way especially with it being my first! but i know what u mean u just want them here just now safe and sound xx

I'm only about 12 wks and I feel the same hun even though I'm excited and looking forward to the future I don't "feel" pregnant I think when I get a proper bump it will seem more real but like mentioned above I guess until baby is here it's not going to seem 100% real. keep going girly things can only get better :) x

Also If I go into a shop and look at baby things...I get kinda embarressed 😶 Now I have a bump so its not as bad...but I use to feel silly for looking at things...also people use to look at me weirdly x

I'm pregnant with my first...and it still hasn't hit me! I also don't feel pregnant because I don't feel like any changes have been made to my body since becoming pregnant...To be honest never expected pregnancy to be like this...you could say I have had it easy compared to other women. I don't think it will become reality until I have my baby in my arms x I'm 35+4 xD x

Your first I take it? I remember not wanting to get anything for my first incase I jinxed it but my daughter did arrive safe and well the day she was due, the bigger you get the more real it will be Hun x