So I wanted a midwife or a female doctor to deliver my baby.. And I got stuck with the creepiest fat male ob at my doctors office who I've never even met!!! Can I refuse the on call doctor from my practice and ask for a different one who's not from my office? I just want to cry because my whole birth plan is out the window. I won't be able to enjoy my daughters birth because I'm gonna feel awkward with this stranger looking at my crotch.