i need advice. what would you ladies do if your childs grandparents wanted a dna test done because…

I'm in the same situation! I'm still debating on it bc I'm not with my baby father & if I do a DNA test it'll automatically give him rights to my son!

@lovemyson_610, I'm so confused on what to do. on one hand i want to donit to prove them wrong but on the other i just wanna tell them forget you all. my baby looks just like her dad and they still questioning it. smh

@mymiracle literally my same exact situation!

just let him or the grandparents pay for the DNA test if you know the baby is your hubbys/bf than when the DNA test come back laugh in their faces

go thru family court tho, they make the father pay!

Unless you want the father to have every right after your child, even AFTER being so cruel like this, I say fuck 'em.

If they don't believe what's right in front of their noses, that's their problem!

@lovemyson_610, @wyatts_mommy_0106 they offered to pay. im just pissed that they would question it. when me and him separated it was because HE was talking to other women and pretending to be single.

same with my hubby he did what yours did and was still saying I was cheating I was pissed and hurt but let his dad test our son just so they'd stop talking shit about me that wasn't true if they are paying let them so they can see he was lying about you cheating

@wyatts_mommy_0106, @iiselphiusii

will doing it really give him all kinds of rights?

@mymiracle yes, it will give him rights! that's why I haven't done it this far!

yes it does give him rights

if a dna test is done through court they'll have you put his name on the birth certificate therefore giving him rights. but that doesnt mean you have to let him see baby. you can make him take you to court for any custody arrangements. idk if hes involved with your child or not so that just depends on you.

you could also buy a dna test kit from walmart or walgreens and do it. then its not legal so it doesnt give any rights just proves paternity.