I need advice... I'm struggling in my relationship a lot recently and it went to far last night. I…
I need advice... I'm struggling in my relationship a lot recently and it went to far last night. I didn't mean to but I ended up scratching my OH on his shoulder and made him bleed 😞 I'm disgusted with myself and I have felt like and evil bitch since it happened. It's just one thing after another building up and I just snapped. I'm not this person. I am struggling emotionally and he doesn't understand my hormones and all I asked was for him to take a shower. That's what we were having a dispute over and it ended up in me physically hurting him. I know he didn't deserve it and I should have done it and I don't want it to happen again. I just feel like I'm making an effort at everything and he does nothing and can't even be bothered to take a shower. Can someone advise me what I should do? I love my OH and I can't even start to understand why I did what I did 🙁
Aprajita·
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Don't be harsh on urself now, you did what you did and you know you are in guilt now but these will have adverse effect. I blv your OH will understand if u jus apologise and chat about it without being snapped again. I know its not a world best advise but you know what best for you guys. You've to step up and show him how badly sorry you are for what u did to him. We all have struggles but its how we deal with them. Sending you strength. XxxX @planner26
Erica Duggan·
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Oh Hun I agree with @sairainbow talk it through with him or someone else family member or friend, talk about how you feel sometimes I have similar feelings my partner lost his job beginning of December and I working all time and come home he's on ps4! Same as the shower I say to him you having one he's like later and he don't and stays up till stupid o clock on that bloody game. He needs to help you out more but it true they don't understand your feelings or hormones or how hard it is!! Xxx
Ayesha·
I see where your coming from but if he did it to me and made me bleed it would be a different reaction and people would tell me to leave him, report him and all sorts so I can't just get away with what I've done and I've decided to tell my midwife to see if she can help me because I can't let things get worse :( x
felicjuh·
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my OH has got no work at the moment and I am 55 hours a week away from work. trust me I understand your frustration! especially as mine tends to play ps4 and expect me to do all the cleaning etc. you know you should have never turned violent but your hormones tend to make situations a lot bigger and it's a lot harder to control yourself. apologise to him and explain what happened. don't beat yourself up over it. it happened, now move forward. xx