I feel so bad because I won't give my fiance sex..every time we do I spot. he hasn't had it in 2…

I have made my boyfriend go almost a month without, it reaches a point of discomfort and he appreciates me being honest with him and not pushing myself to please him when it's hurting me in the long run.

Girl I have made my boyfriend go 3 months without getting Anything even a kiss on the lips just because my sex drive was in the dumps.

mines keep saying it's okay that I don't give in but I do other things for him so he should at least be thankful. I freak out every time I spot. I haven't yet reached discomfort yet. @rachellynn3316

It's just part of the first trimester. It happened to me too. Trust me your sex drive will come back and you won't spot anymore.

I've been feeling not really in the mood anymore. I've actually told him that. @rainbowbaby2015

I cannot wait to get in my 2nd trimester. only 24 days left.

@tattedmama,

At first I was forcing myself to have sex with my boyfriend because I knew it pleased him as well but the pain got so bad I was in tears and had to stop before he finished finally I told him and of course I'm crying while I'm telling him cause I don't want him to think he's doing anything wrong and he completely understand and didn't pressure me into anything. I think it's a major turn on when they don't pressure or hint to you. It's what actually brought my sex drive back.

it just pressures me but I did tell him it won't be like that forever. I always have a feeling that if I don't give it he'll leave but he keeps saying he's not like that. I'm thankful he understands. @rainbowbaby2015

I was a complete bitch my entire first trimester. I could have swore he was going to leave me because that's how mean I was. I feel so bad.

So at least it's not like that. Haha

I'm the same way sometimes too. he knows I don't really mean it. it's taken a lot out of me. @tattedmama

It was a constant thing with me. It was to the point I didn't even want to sleep next to him. I feel so bad now looking back at it. He tells me it's okay but I don't think it is.