So my Dr told me today that I can only have one person in the room with me if I deliver through a c…

I'm only having my mom in the or & my husband has known this from day 1 lol

@jessica_higgins, if you can only have one why would be think you would choose his mom over yours?

that I'm not sure of. he is incarcerated right now and he wants his mom to be there in his place and I of course would like my mom to be in the operating room with me and I feel like if she doesn't get to be in there with me then either her or him will throw a fit about it.

only my bf will be in delivery after my son is born then his family can come in not a minute before

I completely misread this, I apologize. Obviously if he can't be there your own Mother is the next best thing.

I just don't want any conflict with my mom and his especially since he wont be there for the birth.

There shouldn't be. Your Mom should be in the room if he can't be. His Mom should understand that and if she doesn't there really isn't anything you can do about that.

I hope she does! She's been in the room with her daughter when she had her 4 kids and this is my moms first grandbaby .

I can have two people in the room and it'll be my husband and my mom. I wouldn't want my mother in law in there. It would be awkward to me. I don't care if she has had 7 kids