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Jes
Hey ladies! So I'm pretty sure I'm not pregnant😞. Im spotting but I'm pretty sure it's because AF is making an appearance. I'm so freaking frustrated! I just want to cry😢. I didn't realize how extremely disappointed I'd be if I wasn't. I'm starting to think maybe I just can't carry or make children. I've been pregnant once which resulted in a chemical pregnancy and had sex (as usual) without protection nearly every day.. Just one chemical pregnancy in three years of me being active and not preventing. I suppose at the time
It was a game
Of Russian roulette but now I'm starting to get a bit worried that there's something wrong with me. Agh. I don't understand this at all:/. If I'm getting my period I'm definitely ovulating,right? What am I doing wrong?😭
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olson0305

She was trying for a few months but stopped trying bc the time isn't right. :( they have 2 older kids and before her iud she had no problem conceiving.

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olson0305

She was trying for a few months but stopped trying bc the time isn't right. :( they have 2 older kids and before her iud she had no problem conceiving.

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jesjeslovesyou

@olson0305,

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jesjeslovesyou

Aghh those things scare me!! I hear way too many horror stories about those. That's so tough! Is she trying for a baby?

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olson0305

I'd never have guessed all that. My sis got her iud out 6 mos ago and has only had this kind of bleeding bc she's not ovulating. Makes me not want to ever get an iud!! (Well I had one once and it fell out, another reason not to!)

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jesjeslovesyou

Yeah, it's not a "period" at all. Many people think that because they bleed heavily during pregnancy it's also a "period". Nope.. Just blood lol. An actual period ONLY results from ovulation. Anything else is just blood.

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olson0305

This must be what's going on with my sister... @jesjesmarie

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jesjeslovesyou

@olson0305,

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jesjeslovesyou

no lson0305, that doesn't make any sense... Getting your period is the direct result of ovulation without fertilization... If you weren't ovulating then you wouldn't get a period.. Maybe she was taking the tests wrong or something.

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olson0305

Getting your period doesn't automatically mean you're ovulating...my sister thought she must ovulate bc she had her period but when she tried ovulation tests she wasn't. 😔 Fortunately there are things an OB can give you to help! If I were you I would ask an OB. Also, I tried with an ex bf for a year and never got pg- but when I got with my babydaddy it happened immediately. (And then again by accident!) so it could be your partner!!

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bait_4_bitter_bitchez

I felt that same way

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themommaoffour

take a deep breath! just relax! my hubby and I had this problem. we HD our oldest daughter and then experienced 2 miscarriages. make sure you are healthy and eating right. avoid smoking and alcohol. and have fun with it! it'll happen when you lest expect it. and just because you're spotting doesn't mean you're not pregnant. I spotted and thought I was starting. took a test the week I was late came back negative then the following weekend when I still hasn't started I took another test and it was positive. good luck and baby wishes your way

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