HELP!!!!! So, my hubbys brother is staying with us. And i dont mean to be rude to him because he has…
HELP!!!!!
So, my hubbys brother is staying with us. And i dont mean to be rude to him because he has no money. But im on a very very tight budget. And he eats everything i buy for my son, pop tarts, cereal, cookies, crackers. And all the milk we get on wic is going by soooo much faster because he eats like 3 big bowls of cereal everyday. And my son needs that milk, and i need it now too as i am pregnant. The milk we get should be lasting the month, but its no where close to that. It just makes me so angry because i literally have 0 dallors because i work at a college and got laid of for winter break, so i wont have a check until 2 weeks after i start working again!!! How can i tell him nicely he needs to find a way to get his own food, and not my sons??
Laura·
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tell him straight up don't sugar coat things
sandra·
Мама сына (5 лет), беременна (16 нед.)
Just tell him straight up. Or tell your hubby. See my hubby wouldve had said something already he doesnt care if its family or not. Does he work???
Sarah·
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maybe try talking to your husband, have him talk to your brother in law, he could probably talk to his brother in a way that he won't find mean or anything like that.
Ashley Keller·
Мама сына (1 год)
Yes at McDonalds but he got cut down on hours because they are overstaffed. So whatever he makes HAS to be put back for rent, and bills. So our budget is very very tight until i go back to work. :( :( @lizette95
Ashley Keller·
Мама сына (1 год)
Thank you @expectingbabynumberone @aa2016 Hopefully he could tell him better than i could, it all just irritates me so bad, i dont think i could say it in a nice way. Not with these hormones. lol
sandra·
Мама сына (5 лет), беременна (16 нед.)
He should probably try looking for a different job. I mean he aint the only one struggling, for right now so are you and your kid comes before him so just talk to him about it he might take it the wrong way but hey yall already making him a favor or letting him stay with yall
Laura·
В ожидании первенца
or tell your husband to tell him there's no need to deal with that I would be so annoyed
Ashley Keller·
Мама сына (1 год)
Exactly my point! @lizette95 he has applied many places, but hasnt had much luck, because he doesnt have a GED. McDonald's does work around my schedule so we dont have to pay for a sitter. So thats the other problem i have because i have awesome benefits like free tuition for my family and i. So he has to have something that works around my schedule. His brother has a felony on his record, and everytime he gets a job he quits after the first check!!! And i just cant deal with it.
Ashley Keller·
Мама сына (1 год)
@aa2016, its soo annoying!! ive dropped hints like "Braxton(my son) only has a few pop tarts to last him" but 20 minutes later his brother walks out of the kitchen with a big glass of milk that he usually only drinks half of and a pop tart 😠😠
Brenda King·
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I'd just tell him straight up. your money doesnt go to supporting your bil it goes to your kids. he needs another job.
Annamarie·
I say let your hormones fly on his mooching ass lol@_mommyoftwo_ a
gabriella·
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id tell him to quit eating our food, we buy this food for me my son and your bf/husband, not for you, i wouldnt be nice about it at all either, shit like that oh hell no i will not put up with it what so ever, hell girl let me talk to him i will put him in his fucking place, that is your food not his.
Ashley Keller·
Мама сына (1 год)
@gabbator95, Thank you!!! That is all i want to say to him, he is most likley being kicked out!!!! Your awesome girl.
gabriella·
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no problem :) i understand how frustrating that can be, especially since youre pregnant its even more annoying
gabriella·
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just reading this really upsetted me so i feel your anger and pain
Ashley Keller·
Мама сына (1 год)
YEESS!! i feel like it gets to me so much more now that i am pregnant again!! Like HELLO does he not realize we dont have much, im eating for two, and my one year old has a huge appetite!!! We dont get food stamps, and we arent made of money, as im off work as well!! he is so ignorant.. lol @gabbator95 sorry just needed to vent
gabriella·
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no need to apologize thats what this app is for and when youre pregnant, youre aloud to be irritated and cranky, especially when somebody is pulling stupid shit like that, its not just you who would be mad about this hell my friends who arent even pregnant wouldbget angry about this to, so no need to apologize, if anyone is going to apologize its going to be him.
Ashley Keller·
Мама сына (1 год)
Thank you so much!!! Im glad i ran into u on here! @gabbator95
gabriella·
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no problem girl :) any time
gabriella·
В ожидании первенца
message me any time when you need to vent im all ears :) no need to apologize afterwards either :)
Ashley Keller·
Мама сына (1 год)
Awhh!! Thanks girl!!! You made me tear up 😢 crazy hormones!! haha its nice to have someone to vent to, hubby dont like to hear it, im sure you will be getting messages from me in the near future 😂😂 thank you means so much 💕💕💕@gabbator95
gabriella·
В ожидании первенца
no problem and girl oh i know what you mean by hormones, lol i cried over an episode of spongebob and got really mad cause i couldnt cut my hot dog in half correctly
Ashley Keller·
Мама сына (1 год)
Lmaaaaoo 😂😂😂 good to know im not alone. I cried because hubby suprised me with bacon earlier 😂 @gabbator95
gabriella·
В ожидании первенца
yes the recent one why i cried was because my boyfriend suprised me with orange juice when i had a bad day
gabriella·
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i absolutely love orange juice
Ashley Keller·
Мама сына (1 год)
awwwwh 😃 thats so sweet @gabbator95