EVERYONE around me is either pregnant or engaged. more so during these holidays than ever! is it…

If you guys are ready for another baby. Go for it. Who cares what others think. as long as you guys love that baby and provide just like you are for your 5 year old. Then don't let what others think make the decision to have another baby. No matter what you decide people will always judge you for something. I learned it and finally could care less what others thought about my decisions.

you're right and we own a house together and have really good jobs so we're financially stable and ready for it. he has two kiddos too from his previous marriage, so it's going to be a full house but I've waited so long since I've had my son and I want a daughter sooooo bad it hurts me inside! btw we're from the same state :) @babynessa

I say go for it, try for your little girl. You guys are well off and that baby will be loved by your growing family. :) just notice your from Washington as well. I'm new to the state. @baiceleste

Don't let the fear of being judged hold you back from y'all trying to have another baby. who cares if you aren't married if y'all are ready then go for it.

yeah! I live near Bellingham, actually a little south of that in a small small town but that's the nearest city. when did you move?:) and I think I'm going to! now I just gotta make an appointment for my iud. my doctors always like "are you sure you don't wanna wait til it's been in for the full 5 years?" then I question myself and I'm like oh wait haha never mind don't take it out cuz I'm a chicken! i gotta make sure I don't do that this time. lol I heard iuds are really bad and cause infertility though so I'm nervous :/

@babynessa

my son's name is Wyatt! :) @wyatts_mommy_0106 and I know it's just like it's so different because the first time I got pregnant it wasn't planned and I was 16 and obviously not ready or prepared and I felt less caring then about what peoples opinions were than I am now! I think it's because I've narrowed down my friend group too so I'm like well... who's going to support this?

As long as your husband supports it and yalls family which I'm sure they will everything will be fine. I planned my son with my finacee and his family was supportive I'm.not close with mine so they don't matter. if the friends you have don't support it then they aren't really friends

I just moved here almost a month ago with my husband. we came from Georgia but my husband lost his job so now we are staying with my great aunt till we get on our feet again. my sister had the iud. she had it removed and now she's pregnant with baby number 5. I wish you guys the best.

@baiceleste,

Oh I'm sorry to hear that! at least you have family in the area though, that's helpful :) you'll be so busy with your new little one soon too! @babynessa