OK ladies correct me if I'm wrong so last night I ask my fiance to take our 3week baby bc he was…
OK ladies correct me if I'm wrong
so last night I ask my fiance to take our 3week baby bc he was fussy and crying and I tried to put he to sleep I was giving the bottle and pacifier nothing was helping it's almost 1 in the morning I'm sleepy now I been doing this since he was born well for all of the kids I know he had to wake up early for wrk I'm only asking for help he never tend to the baby he start calling me a bitch and be a mother just bc I ask him to take the baby I was getting aggravated so was I wrong for asking him to take the baby knowing he have to get up for wrk u feel like we in this together and he never take the baby just for me to rest in the daytime no nothing
Marissa Tasker·
Мама дочки-младенца
Omg!!! I was in the same exact situation! Only a FTM
sassytay·
Мама троих детей
it's crazy they would never understand we have restless night and try to keep the house together and tend to the other kids they need to pitch in and help also
Tiara·
Мама четверых детей
I don't think you were wrong for asking for help especially if you were starting to get frustrated with the baby. My husband wakes up early for work so I don't ask for help at night but I'm okay not asking bcuz he is a really big help during the day. You are absolutley right tho he has to pitch in somewhere.
missing98user·
Мама сына-младенца
No you weren't wrong. I had to learn that I couldn't ask my husband because he did work. I use to be so mad at him. It was so hard but he did try. He just couldn't stop going back to sleep so I just stopped asking. Now, if I were you, I wouldn't ask him to watch my baby if he's mean enough to call you out of your name.
🎀 Alicia 🎀·
В ожидании первенца
No, you weren't wrong in asking for help. Even if he has to work in the morning its his responsibility too. He became a father and now has responsibilities like you do as a mother. Lack of sleep for both parents is what happens and he will have to get used to it till the baby gets older and on a schedule.
Cristina·
Мама подростков
For one he shouldn't be calling you out of your name and saying it in front of the mother of his kid.It is very disrespectful and he need to understand that just cause he work doesn't always mean oh he doesn't have to attend the kids. it is also his priorities to watch the baby too regardless. its not about him. some mom may not work but our kids are our number 1 priorities and we are there 24/7 full-time its the same as a job. So if you feel upset you have every right girl. They just don't get it but you should let me him know how you feel.