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Yup! He buys things for my son when he needs them and when we're together (like 4 times a week) he handles feedings and diaper changes BUT he has his priorities mixed up. He doesn't understand what responsibility is and that his life changed when he decided to have a baby. Ugh guys..

Yes pretty much , my baby daddy is a man whore so I decided to go my separate ways when I found out about my baby .. So i told him .. When i did he acted very rude and dismissive after a few weeks he calls today and really try's to make me feel guilty about what I do .. He's a man who loves control .. How do I stop it .

so true!

meh...😡😡

@summerrye yes! my baby dad inboxes me on fb after he got a new # blocked me on all social media pages he inboxes me n like i feel u b good on your own i just cant b around you i feel like you planned to take my freedom away...he already has a son so im like wth

@lyric816,

yup mines in jail asking for money to call n eat so I drop him 50$ come to find out he's calling other females

@summerrye yeah same like he came over n stayed the night cause he lives n austin right now n i got pregnant b4 Christmas n so he was like i was the best gift n this n that n im like u was just telling me u regret being with me n etc

but why have a baby with someone you know wasn't even a good boyfriend in the first place

Mine is a liar and a loser. Admitted to beimg a married man after I told him I was pregnant, We dated and I asked him if he had ever been married, sttaight out lied to my face and said NO, never.

Promised he'd be around and be supportive of the baby.

Lets just say hes beem MIA since I told him, text me a handful of times and came by once to see my belly for a few hours. Have not seen or spoke to him since Nov and I dont plan to contact him ever. He doesnt deserve to be in my daughters life.

@pretty_xoxo_giirl_, that's how I felt , but I had to tell him I felt like it was the right thing to do . But I don't know how I feel about him just taking my baby .. And me not knowing it gives me a headache just thinking about it .

oh, he knows. & he had the nerve to let his WIFE talk shit about his daughter. Reguardless of the situation, how it all went down, and how he/she feels about me, this baby is his own flesh and blood & for him to not say shit to his wife for talking shit about is daughter was enough for me to never want to speak to him again, that man, excuse me BOY is dead to me. I'd never trust him or his wife around my daughter. As much hatred that jealous woman has shown. . . . NEVER. She'd probably hurt her just to hurt me & thats too much of a risk for me.

That's what goes through my mind and I would literally lose it .. Everyone is not a good person and the thought of someone treating my baby any kind of way I couldn't take it ... I would feel better when my baby could talk and walk .. And could let me know exactly what's going on . @pretty_xoxo_giirl_

exactly, but even then its like umm.... hes been gone since day 1, he would be a complete stranger to my daughter and it was just be a huge slap in the face for him to pop up outta no where and be like, "Hey, I'm ready to be a man now and step up. . . . . fuck out my face. He had a chance and chose to bounce ✌ We made a huge sacrifice and change the moment we found out we were pregnant, my daughters dad is still doing him and hasnt changed or put any effort at all. Im good & if she ever ask why she doesnt have a dad, idk what I'll tell her. Few people said just avoid the question, act like I didnt hear her, others say tell her the truth, and some say lie, say he died in an car accident or something. . . . . Im scared to tell her the truth because I dont want her to ever feel like she wasnt good enough, or deserving of her fathers love, and then if I lie to her I dont want her to hate me for not being honest with her. It sucks :(

Yes it's a hard decision to make , when I first got pregnant I was extremely terrified on if I should tell him or not .. I asked around and they said it was the right thing to do .. But when I told him I got the worst response ever it literally almost broke me .. I know we didn't end well but at the same time I expected more .. Once he told me that I went into hatred mode i blocked him out of my life and planned my life with my new baby w/o including not giving my baby his last name .... My family told me not to do that because that would be a mess for my child .. Don't deprive them of those rights .. I personally know exactly how it feels to not have a father ( a real father ) and to this day it really sucks because my kid won't have that bond .. It's not fair to my baby .. But then again you can't make anyone do anything they don't want to like you said ... As far as you baby daddy I don't blame you , you can't force someone to care or be consistent.. And I understand that more than anything I'm not to far along so I don't know how we are going to play out but I know that my bd .. Would probably do anything in his power to hurt me .. When it comes to my baby .. But that's where mommy mode comes in I WONT allow it lol You are doing great .. Just whatever decision you make just make sure you are 100 percent because if you allow him to play around with your baby life ... That only hurts them believe me .

@pretty_xoxo_giirl_,

I know exactly what you mean on not having a father around and the effects it has on a child. I just feeI I gave him every opportunity to be there, text him Dr. appts. forgave him for everything, not being there the first 4 months, tried to be understanding to him, his feelings, and situation only to have it all backfire on me. Never in a million years did I want this to be the outcome for my daughter and the involvement of her parents but sometimes thats just life I guess and its not fair for her to have to suffer because her father and I as adults made a decision that was potentionally life changing for all parties involved and he chose to bail. She didnt ask for this but Im determined to give her the best life possible and spoil her with love and let her know how beautiful, special, and thankful I am that she is MINE 💘 I hope everything works out for you in the best possible way, just remember to Stay positive 😘

Yes ma'am you too ❤️ I wish you the best I'm sure I'll have plenty stories to tell you in the months to come lol @pretty_xoxo_giirl_