My fiancé just looked at me and asked if I was pregnant..I said no, why? He said "you've been eating…

Surprise him then

I've been told guys usually know first. My son's biological dad knew I was before I did.

It won't be a good surprise if I am..@mah_mammi we just had our first a year ago, we had her prematurely and we were told not to have more...and not only that but we're planning for a wedding, trying to get through school and still live with his parents..

@texashippie21, mine was totally clueless last time too, I knew right away

I didn't know he is the one that kept asking me if I was and I was like umm nope. Well sure enough I tested 2 days later and it was a big fat positive!

@texashippie21, it could be different this time though since we live together now lol but he's been asking me for a few days, but it's only been almost 2 weeks since the incident happened lol

Oh no. I have was found out I was pregnant in the middle of planning for my wedding so we went to a court house and got married. I also still live with my parents me and my husband do. But we chose too because financially it is not possible for us to even try. I'm in school as well so I stay at home with our boy while my husband goes to work. I hope everything works out for you my dear

@mah_mammi, luckily my wedding is in 2017 so I'll still have time, but I'm in a similar situation. It's not financially possible for us to be on our own yet and his parents just forced me to quit my job so I can just focus on school for now and he's doing the same thing so his parents pay for everything for both of us and I work around the house for extra money

So if you are pregnant Atleast you'll be able to figure things out before hand. And maybe being home and not at work will help your chances with a positive pregnancy

@mah_mammi, I hope so! My doctor told me not to get pregnant again and if I do I'm high risk right off the bat. I had severe preeclampsia and hellps syndrome with our daughter

Oh no. I would cry. Well being a high risk you would probably be put on bed rest the majority of your pregnancy. And if you are I will pray for all the way through!

@mah_mammi, thank you! I have such mixed feelings about this situation!

Well as my husband says if God wants us to be pregnant again he will make us. So think of it as that

@mah_mammi, true! It's just conflicting. I really desperately want more kids. I love being a mom and I wanted 5 and have crazy baby fever, but it's so scary with the issues I had and the position were in..and just starting nursing school

Well I'm not sure how much of a believer you are but my papa before he passed always told me that God will never give you anything he doesn't think you can handle. So in a way it may be tough and a very complicated situation but a strong momma never gives up.

I wish I could help you through it all. Life is so precious and you deserve to have the children you want.

@mah_mammi, it just sucks, but God obviously has another plan for me and I think it's adopting and fostering. I just really wish I knew if I was pregnant again or not...I've been on birth control off and on for almost a year, I was off for about a month when this happened, it was during my fertile/ovulation time and it was exactly the same amount of days after my period and into my fertile time as my last pregnancy...

I say just try not to stress and wait it out. Trust me I know it sucks waiting but stressing over it doesn't help. I have been trying for another for a year and with no success I constantly stress and wonder when its gonna happen. I will pray for you that everything works out.

Yea I agree with @texashippie21 it's best not to freak out and wait and see what happens