yes hard! marriage is hard. I've been with my husband off and on for 8 years married for 5 months and it's so much different. marriage is hard work for everyone. but it's also the best because no matter what they will always be there.
hardest? maybe stressful lol im excited we are doing civil here and church one in mexico bcuz i love the churches over there
congrats its gonna be one of the hardest and best time of your life I wouldn't trade my husband for the world even when he gets salsa all over the dam rug and donut crumbs everywhere
i been with my fiance for 4 years never had break ups yeah minamal fights but dont last longer then 10 mins mad at one another lol and yes it may get harder after marriage but well its worth it ^_^