Do you guys think you need to be best friends with your partner to have a healthy relationship? I…

@I zzysmommy1003, my opinion don't worry or think too much just go with the flow but always be you, if it's meant to be than it will work out. Good luck!

@izzysmommy1003, and you never wanna be too attached that will make a man draw away from you trust me I'm learning from experience.

@as kinner, it's hard not to get too attached to him. When I found out I was pregnant I left my family to come move in with him. And he thinks just cause we live together and see eachother everyday that we don't need to go on dates or just have us time you know? Like you know when you can be around someone all the time but still miss them. That's how it is

@izzysmommy1003, omg your situation sounds just like how I felt or feel i am also pregnant (32 weeks and 2 days to be exact) and I live with my babyfather/boyfriend too we've been living together for over a year and a half on and off together and I've felt exactly the same exact way so I know what you mean but my advice don't worry but always say how you feel and just try to chill. It's hard but I know how you feel find stuff or something to keep you busy so you won't think about it guys do get comfortable once you're living with them tho. worrying can make things worst cause you may get angry that he's not trynna pay you attention and may start and argument and that's gon have an opposite affect its gon make him draw away.

@mrskelly, yeah that's what I'm trying to do, but I moved away from my friends and my family so it's hard to get away from him. All I can do now is just focus on my son, he keeps me busy but I mean I'd love to have just a day where my boyfriend shows he appreciates me. Cause he always has his cousins or friends over and I'm like can you just be with my for one full day without anyone interrupting is? And he says well I can't be rude and not chill with them. This is an everyday thing.

@izzysmommy1003, yea I understand so basically all you know is him. I totally know where you're coming from but you have to think about you moved in with him so you're in his space and where he's at so he's going to have company and friends over he should've changed that a lil once you moved in like have friends over every once in a while.

@mrskelly, exactly! And well they come everyday, not that he invites them, they just come. I honestly just feel like if he could be with his friends or me he would be with his friends. Cause we don't do the same things. He gets high and idk he's just into things I'm not so it's hard to do anything with him

@izzysmommy1003, oh no!! He has to put a stop to that if he cares about your feelings. Just say how you feel and see how it goes don't worry about doing what he does be you don't change for anyone.

@izzysmommy1003, I followed you btw if you want you can follow me back.

mm rskelly, yeah I know, I don't want to ever go that low just to get attention out of him but our relationship isn't going to get very far if we don't communicate or spend time together. And okay I will😊 sorry I didn't get any notifications that you commented back

@mrskelly,

@I zzysmommy1003, it's okay. & yea that's true without communication and time spent a relationship can fade.

@izzysmommy1003,

everyone needs space, maybe you should plan things, and set time aside for just you two and then time apart, thats keeps you from getting bored with eachother. and always spice up things, try different thing neither of you like, or have never tried.

@_kaylaamariee_, that's the thing I tell him let's make a date to the movies or to have dinner and he says ok but when try time comes he makes it seem like a burden.

I just don't know what to do anymore honestly @mrskelly

idk why men do that. mine is the same way sometimes. but, they enjoy it.. well, id hope so anyway. i hopw you figure things out, and i hope things get better for you.

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@_kaylaamariee_,

@izzysmommy1003, well all I can say you'll know when you've had enough. Hope everything gets better tho.

True mm rskelly

@mrskelly,

have a sit down and lay everything out on the table or how you have been feeling. now that you live together some things will have to change. he should have company every now and then not every day . there has to be some type of communication between the two of you in order for things to work

We have days we talk it out and he sounds sincere and sticks to whatever he says for a couple days then it goes right back to how it used to be @aidensmommy110

sounds a lot like my man and I been with him for 4 1/2 years I feel like a robot sometimes constantly repeating myself over and over

Yup! So idk what to do, people are telling me to leave and just get a break from him but I don't want to

@aidensmommy110,

there's always gonna be someone telling you to leave him but until you feel like it's time to let go and enough is enough dont leave keep working on it with him .

Yeah I don't want to leave. I know I'd go crazy if we ever split up and he loves me so much too and he's afraid if I ever leave I'm taking my son away from him completely but I just want us to get better @aidensmommy110

,I swear u sound like me...you just gotta keep talking to him so he know you serious about how you are feeling he will get it eventually

Lol eventually. Honestly I think he's afraid to grow up. He's depended on his family for everything all his life as a back up and I'm trying to get him to be able to do things that benefit us as a little family but I think that's why he's trying to hold on to what he had so much @aidensmommy110