I was 17 when me and my boyfriend decided to try... couple months later I got a hit of reality that we both didnt even graduate hs yet, neither had a job and both were still living with our parents and the plan we had, set me up to possibly be a single parent... as soon as I backed out a week later I found out I was 5 weeks pregnant... Due to stress I went into preterm labor and lost my daughter. when we are young we never see the whole picture, we see the cute clothes, and names, the kisses, the title... everyone is different but I couldn't even imagine going through any of that while only being 14, for get sake and safety I hope she isn't trying.

no 14 year old should be trying! ever! they still have so much to experience. and I only got judgment from parents or teens way older than me. kids my age supported me and I didnt have any issues! I also love in a very small town :) I thankfully had parents who helped me.. I was a cheerleader my freshman and sophomore year.. I went to all my homecoming and proms! I also took college classes while in high school to earn college credit.. and I graduated a semester early :) I haven't successfully finished college yet... but I will be working on it after I have my wedding and the baby! haha I have seen 14 year olds on here trying to get pregnant and I message them trying to suggest other things.. don't have babies so young!!!!

Wow! Very interesting story, and I'm not judging at all. I just think this 14 year old girl SHOULD not be trying. Besides babies are expensive. She won't be able to support them. Did you get a lot of judgemental stares? @mamaof31996

I wanted to get pregnant, so bad. I thought a baby was easy and I thought I'd be with my babies father forever! I was 13 years old when I got pregnant with my twins. I never ever ever regret having them. they are my world BUT I wish I had been a little older.. I'm not with their dad.. he is in prison for drug use. I was so blind.. and it took until my boys were 1 to see how dumb I was.. my sister is 15 now and I praise her every year that passes that she hasn't had a baby.. that may sound bad but I don't want my sister to miss out on all the high school stuff like I did! I always try to steer young girls in the other direction. I was forced to deliver early because my babies were too big for my young hips, they would have broke... and I have constant back pain because my body wasn't fully done growing! I am stuck at the same height I was at 13 as well! and thank the Lord my children came out healthy! there is just so much more to having a baby. im 19 now and my boys are about to be 5. I'm pregnant with another boy. and I will drill it into my kids the cost of having a baby as a young kid is so much more than just money....

I agree @lastraisedqueen and I also want to add that as a 14 year old, you still havnt lived life.. if it works out you can still go through hs, but it would be difficult caring for a little one. at 14/15 you can maybe start earning money from a job... how do you have the money for a baby at that age?? typically, those years in hs and college are the years to have a job to earn the money and even if you're not in college, you are earning and saving that money. you don't get to go out on your 21st, instead you'll be taking care of your 6 or 7 year old. I am not judging, I'm really trying to understand WHY young girls would consider starting a new life, when they still have yet to live. baby's are blessings, but to be able to support them, you need to have the money and support for them. I know someone who had a baby at 15. she loves her child, but wishes she reconsidered and waited to have a child until she was able to support them.

I would always say I wanted a baby as soon as I turned 16.. my mom thought I was crazy, now years later, actually pregnant, I was crazy dumb to even want a baby at that age. lol if they only knew what you go thru in a pregnancy, let alone labor & caring for a newborn, haven't been thru that yet, but I can only imagine already!! 😴😴😩