I am a hairstylist and my husband wants me to stop working already .. I mean I'm only 10 weeks and…
I am a hairstylist and my husband wants me to stop working already .. I mean I'm only 10 weeks and even tho I feel like crap n I'm always tired I feel like if I leave work I'll go nuts at home .. But he is so protective even with my daughter he told me to stop earlier on in my pregnancy .. Idk what to do ..
Lexii Ann Schacht·
Мама двоих (1 год, 1 год), ждёт третьего
I think you should keep working until you're ready to take it easy
Rachel·
Tell him you'll be fine for now, there is absolutely zero reason you should have to stop working at only 10 weeks. the baby is still teeny tiny right now plus its not like youre doing hard labor work (not saying i could handle your job id mess up bad lol) you'll get some of that energy back for a minute. Hopefully, I never did but I have a big girl growing in there lol.
jamielynn07·
Мама подростка, беременна (22 нед.)
my husband said the same. I'm also a stylist. but my clients would have a shit fit haha. I just cut back my hours recently. with my son I worked up until 39 weeks and I was miserable. I won't be doing that this time because I was so stressed not being able to sit down once or eat a meal.
jamielynn07·
Мама подростка, беременна (22 нед.)
and congrats you survived the holiday rush being pregnant haha.
Sylvia Reyes·
В ожидании первенца
I quit my job (dental assistant) early and now I'm going crazy at home! I wish I would of waited and just worked till I was too big and uncomfortable! :/
Jess·
Мама дочки (3 года), беременна (10 нед.)
He knows all of this and of course I do too .. But he keeps insisting that I leave work already almost turning into an argument .. Plus his mom is on his side .. She too thinks I should stop working . And I refuse lol
Jackie·
В ожидании первенца
I had a shitty job doing housekeeping, and my boyfriend ended up talkin me into quitting and not working early on in my pregnancy bc he thinks it his job to take care of me, I'm thankful, but I try to just keep myself busy with preparing for the baby and other things, we always have plenty of money, but feeling worthless when we get lower on cash is the worst! if your not ready then I wouldn't stop working! it should be your decision..
Jess·
Мама дочки (3 года), беременна (10 нед.)
@wrd2016, well we are not worried about the money at all that's why he insists so much .. There's many factors to it too.. He rather me stay home take care of myself and my daughter instead of her going somewhere else .. He wants me to be safe cause I do have to drive preety far to work .. I am very thankful for that and I appreciate it .. I just don't want to regret it later .. I mean I do hair and makeup at home too so that's why it isn't a big deal to him .. I understand some girls can't do that cause of need of money or some pregnancies go better than others .. There's pros n cons to it but let's see what I decide .. My family always comes first than my job no matter what ... So Hopefully I make the right choice :)
Jackie·
В ожидании первенца
oh I understand, that's what he told me, that he would rather me be at home and enjoy my pregnancy and make sure she's healthy then to be working and stressing myself and wearing myself out. and you know what's best for your family, so I'm sure you will make the right choice, :)
Jess·
Мама дочки (3 года), беременна (10 нед.)
@wrd2016, I mean great for all u ladies that work up till ur 40 weeks but personally if I have the choice I rather not .. It's tough being pregnant .. I'm nasceous all day .. I have to drag myself everywhere not even getting ready anymore .. Even talking makes me gag .. I'm like slowly dying but excited at the same time lol it wasn't like this at all with my daughter and with this one I don't even want to get out of bed or finish a meal! It's horrible lol BUT worth it !! ❤️❤️
Jess·
Мама дочки (3 года), беременна (10 нед.)
Plus the smell of everyone's hair makes me sick!! .. Oh lord! Especially seniors .. Lord make me strong lol
Jackie·
В ожидании первенца
lmfao! seeing how I feel now there's no way that id still be working lol I feel your pain. I'm almost 34 weeks, and I'm hurting so bad, tired all day, can't sleep at night for nothing lol and my bf works out of town so he's never around to help me do anything.. being pregnant is definitely really hard on our bodies. I'm thankful everyday that I'm one of few pregnant mama's that don't have to work bc not all women are as lucky 😌💓
Jess·
Мама дочки (3 года), беременна (10 нед.)
@wrd2016, you don't even know lol ... It's def a battle .. And girls in there that have never been pregnant are like "oh ur fine" .. Uhh bitch! I've been constipated for days and can't sleep cause I have weird ass dreams and can't eat cause I get sick trust me it's not ok .. Lol
Jackie·
В ожидании первенца
lmao 😂😂 I hate when someone says oh just wait, like bitch what wait for what??? I'm already miserable lmao. gtfoh with that shit, obviously I know it's gonna get worse, but that don't make me feel better now! lol
Jess·
Мама дочки (3 года), беременна (10 нед.)
@wrd2016, Ha ha seriously my back kills me .. And when I run to the bathroom when I start getting sick and they're like " did u throw up.. Is it morning sickness " and I'm like "did they really not hear me gagging" lol I come out with my eyes all watery drinking water like "nooo I was in there wasting time gagging for fun"
Jackie·
В ожидании первенца
lmao I'm having really bad back pain right now, and you got me cracking up! 😂😂 I can't stand getting sick and my prenatals always made me get sick and I hated when someone would ask if I got sick every time I came out the bathroom, like really?? if you couldn't hear me, how does my face not tell you??
Jess·
Мама дочки (3 года), беременна (10 нед.)
@wrd2016, lol .. Well I know for sure I won't work til 40 weeks I just don't know when I'll stop .. I would still be doing hair n makeup since I do freelance so that will be enough for later :) keep myself busy .. :) thanks for talking to me .. I hope u feel better and hopefully this pregnancy gets easier for me lol
Jackie·
В ожидании первенца
oh anytime :) and thank you I'm gonna try a nice warm shower! && it will get better girl :) good luck!