RANT
so my step daughter went to stay with my husband's parents last night and from what we understood we would come pick her up some time mid day. well they took it upon themselves to take her out of town without letting us know. which already annoyed me but I took a deep breath and we were told they'd let us know when they were headed to our house. it's 5 o'clock it's dinner time. be considerate and call and let me know where you are how she's doing etc. I know she's not my child she's my husband's so it's a little out of my control which is why I don't say a whole lot I try to keep it to myself but I'm aboit to give birth to twins and i feel like arguments are gonna end up happening cause I can't keep biting my tongue. especially if they try to pull this with them. I love my in laws don't get me wrong. it's just things like this bother me alot. especially since I feel like they don't respect us as parents and try to over rule. bluh. rant overrr.
Yesterday I went out with my boyfriend went to watch a movie, me and him don't live together yet. but point is yesterday when he was dropping me off his like sleep over at my house witch the mom and dad lives. I said no,
his response was why is everyone deciding or making choices for you and their going to do the same with the baby, when I know that's not true. what he thinks is that my mom tells me not to sleep over. So he left all mad. and I felt in my heart that he went on and cheated on me...
Locking your doors
We are having a discussion on one of my birth boards from my older kids about locking doors and security alarms. There are many of us (me included) who do not lock our doors at home (I actually don't even have a deadbolt on my house and we don't lock it when we leave either), and others who think that's totally weird. So what do you do? Do you lock your doors? Do you think it's weird that people don't?
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