So I have a 3yo Autistic step son, whom we love dearly. His mother will not let us see him because…

Nothing. It has absolutely nothing to do with seeing your step son.

Ahh. I can't stand my step kid's mother for that reason. To them it means that their child will be neglected and not loved properly being that a new baby is to be born.

@tattedmama, what do you think it is?

It could be she is jealous. My exs daughter's mother was like that. So jealous she wouldn't like my ex see his daughter at all. We had to chase her into a store just to see Nat. We didn't know she was going to be there but that was the first time in 3 or 4 months at that time. It's horrible. It really is.

We do everything for him. She use to say that I didn't like him and all that jazz and when she found out that all of his new clothes, toys, learning devices, and so on, I was buying, she changed her mind. I have had 3 miscarriages, I love children. I would never do anything to mine or anyone else's.

Its ridiculous that we have to go through stuff like this. They'd feel really crazy if we were those women that just wanted the man minus the child.

Jealousy...he should just file for partial/joint/visitation (whichever works for you guys) they take it out on the kid and it's so stupid

@bianca_rose, we have been discussing it.