he found out I was innocently flirting with a couple ppl I know on Facebook... he was super upset...…

Not judging... But If you aren't happy, why don't you leave?

because I'm in love with him, I want us to work.... but I'm not getting any love or affection... idk if it's the getting use to a new baby but I'm just in a weird state right now @unbecomingme

I see. Well, I would stop flirting with other people. Innocent or not. I mean I get if you're a friendly person and it's seen as flirting, cause that's what happens to me. But if you are intentionally being flirty, that's not okay... And your hormones are raging! It's okay to be overwhelmed, but try to make time for your boyfriend and if he's not making effort, I would say something to him in a non-accusing way.

and the thing is I'm a naturally friendly person and it can come off as being flirty... but it was with people I've been friends with for years and we have NEVER done anything... we spend no time where it's just us, I spoke on it and he takes it as I'm just complaining and not expressing my feelings.... so idk what to do at this point except shut down @unbecomingme

If at all possible, I'd live separately for a while. Let him realize that if he ain't gonna work for it, that's his problem. He can see his kid, but he doesn't get to neglect your relationship ship cause that's bull.

I've been thinking about that.... cuz he's not even trying right now @unbecomingme

It's tough when they don't try. But you deserve better than someone who isn't willing to put effort in.