She's just like "well what do you want ME to pay for, because SHES doing the invitations?!?"

@mrshumphries, i know exactly how you feel! I decided to just not have one. its so damn stressful

She as in my mom

Yeah it's just my mom and my mil are supposed to be planning it, and lately she's been acting very childish and just stressing me out...

I felt the same way at times

but you will feel so happy that you decided to have one it really helps with baby expenses. also it helps you become more excited about baby coming! and you get to be spoiled for the day and see friends and family :-) at least that's the way I felt after my baby shower.