lesson #1 never let another individual tell you hiw to raise your child or try to control how you raise your child because at the end of the day you one day will be in your own place and have to deal with this spoiled kid that somebody else created

put your foot down. she's gotta understand that 1) she's not the mommy and 2) parenting has changed since she was a mommy to an infant.

i had to have that exact conversation with my family about a year ago. parent the way you want to parent.

that happened to my sister but she got off at 4 and talk to your mother in law and have your partner talk to her with you it worked for my family