man I was the same way. at 14 weeks I was so constipated and backed up I started having SEVERE abdominal pain to the point where I went to the ER because I thought I was losing the baby. Then I was able to find out I was just badly stopped up and that he was a boy :)

it got real

Nobody understands until it happens to them. There's nothing worse than having to go and not being able to. 😭