mine said we are spending it together no matter what and if anything he better not go out lol

Yes he wants to go to the club and get drunk

I had the same problem with mine when I was pregnant with our first child..I told him he was an inconsiderate asshole and I didn't get pregnant on my own..he got his act together, now I'm 7 weeks pregnant with number 2 and we'll be spending NYE with our 18 month old watching movies and eating junk food lol..not all scenarios are the same but talking to him might enlighten him on how you feel

I'm married and my husbands ass will be at home parked next to mine. Id be pissed if I was in your situation though. Have you said something about it?