ok so I'm 7momths pregnant. my boyfriend won't touch me at all. no affection no nothing. and its made me insecure. I asked him a few weeks ago how he feel about a open relationship. I need to have sex my sex drive as not gone anywhere so he felt some kinda way. I explained to that I'm a pregnant woman whose hormones are even more high because of the pregnancy. I've never been one to think he's with someone else but at this point its like ok its been 5months since the last time he touched me. you not gonna tell me you ain't doing something. idk what to do or what to say. and I've been pushed away and now don't even want him to touch me. I rather spend time with someone else. I need some kinda advice..
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I understand that! well either A he needs to man up boo or B you need to up a man lol seriously though. us woman need attention on the daily anyways and when our hormones are crazy yes we either needs it or dont. so he needs to open those eyes girl
he can't say much. he say I don't wanna say nothing to make you mad. I tell him them going to get me a boo thang. he gets mad. why are you mad when you have a loyal woman begging to be touched by you. @serenitysmommy2014 it's just bothering me and idk what to think..
It's ok to joke but litely especially being preggers doesn't he know we can be more crazy lol
lol @serenitysmommy2014 I have toys. I've stopped getting dresses in front of him. locking the bathroom door when I'm in the shower. I wear clothes to bed. and he ask why it change I said because you changed and don't look at me the same. he swears he wants me and love me but don't show it at all.
I always felt insecure no matter what matt my bf always wanted it and I never understood why... he'd want me on top and nope not happening... but I just wish he would see this is serious for you love
right. some men feel they will touch the baby or what have you but this is a hard situation. maybe get a toy? maybe then he'll see you need attention!
@serenitysmommy2014, thank you. I appreciate it. I mean he never went that far. I know he has history with his kids mother and how she did him but that was over 10 years ago I'd think he get over it not to be harass. he worship the ground I walk on but he won't touch me. idk if its cuz he's scared or what either way he can't seem to shake the fact that its made me insecure.
hun my advice is no offense but a real man who wants and needs you and that baby will touch, kiss,love you anytime! me and my boyfriend now got together when I was 5 months pregnant. and he is now her dad not saying this will happen to you. but God does work in mysterious ways . her sperm donar would call me fat and lay on top of me... ext.. but at the end of the day girl you got yourself and that baby to worry about and clearly he isn't worth the stress, confustion, and hurt . hope I helped . I'm here for you
Girl, sounds like he is cheating to you.. but idk. if that was my man and he wasn't fking me on the regular, my ass would be with someone else already. my sex drive is no joke and it's even more now