Omfg this is a thing? Our family's hate each other . And I really don't give a shit if I have one or not . But our mothers are the old school Cuban type and want the party just not with each other lol so I told my man if we can't get everyone in one fucking room then I don't want one and they can all kiss my ass . I'm to tired and to stressed about my pregnancy to worry about who's feelings I'm hurting or who I'm disappointing. These ppl have to realize it's about the baby and not them.

I'm having three lol. Partially because our family is so huge and partially BC not everyone can get along. The first 2 went well and the last one (the biggest one) is on the 9th so we shall see what happens there haha

Im having two baby showers too, i already had the first one with my side of the family & my second one is next week with SOs fam, which is basically drama fest instead of a baby shower. Its so ridiculous

I'm having two baby showers also due to families not getting along lol. It's crazy to me that people can't put their differences aside during a beautiful time!