Anyone else having trouble on deciding if the bd deserves for his baby to have his last name ..? I'm…

I was like that with our first son.I ended up putting my husband last name.he has always been a good father that's the way I see it.u get me

this is my situation now. I have been alone during this entire pregnancy and I feel as though my baby should have my last name.

I guess every situation is different cause I don't see him as a good father , I might be crazy but he has a 4 year old an plays daddy of the year but only gets her every other weekend . Usually starting Saturday taking her home Sunday or Monday ... When him an his other bm was together it seemed different, but we ain't together an I feel my son needs more than a 4 days a month daddy . @fluffiieemommiiee

I am going through the same.....and my child will have my last name I wont tell him when I am in labor because I dont want him there till after she is born.I really dont want him there at all but hey its life....so I would say do what you feel is right.

that's all up to you mama! cus u r right every situation is diff.just don't get pressure into putting his last name if u don't want to.it's ur baby ur dession

meeee

That's what I think I'm gonna do @applepie19 & I just know it'll cause more hard feelings an his family probably won't want nothin to do with him . But it will be there problem . Ion feel like he's gonna step up . @fluffiieemommiiee

well screw his family as long as that baby has you he has everything!(: he will still have to step up no matter what!the baby will also have ur family no matter what happens

only time can tell but hunny I wouldnt worry because if he wants to be there he will come around but in the mean time try not to stress yourself out about it😊

Thanks ladies ☺️ he's just gonna get my last name an if he really proves his self in the first year an wants to change it I guess that could be a option ! @fluffiieemommiiee @applepie19

good luck😇