How am I supposed to feel well boyfriend aka my daughter father still sees things and it reminds him…

Umm unacceptable ...

what?! maybe it's normal for him to think of her sometimes.. I think we all have other people that cross our minds at some point. but tagging her in things & talking to/about her is outrageous. I'd definitely not be okay with it. 😕

wait what? is she still alive and his friend?

@shyannfleener, I mean yeah things cross my mind from here to there as well but I dont go out of my way anymore sense Ive been with him to let them know I acknowledged it and thats what makes me feels worse because being pregnant I feel so gross and not good enough and then I see her and Im just all down 😞

exactly sweetheart. it's not okay.. please say something to him!

@mymiracle, he says there still friends but still not okay with it because he liked her for so long and was willing to almost across country for her like that's what's getting to me most because Ive done so much for him and yet he still thought of her and tagged her in a post but when he thinks of me and post he just shares it and tells me yeah thats for you no tag or anything in it

@shyannfleener, when I do it turns into a fight and how im stupid for getting mad over a friend its so petty because I never make him have to go thru that because my daughter,him, and my family are all that matter to me but idk (sigh) Im just tired of the fighting because its not the first time we have fought over this its just been a good while sense we have

oh no i know how that feels. my ex husband was like that and did the same things...even when we separated it was a big part of our separation because he had a fb i didnt know about and he would tag a woman "his bff" in posts that said he would smile when he thought of her and he loved her. and nowhere did it ever say he was married. and even some of his family saw the posts. after we separated he had even made her his cover photo on fb.

i got tired of being #2 when ive been there for him and he never even met this woman in person smh.

and he would do that with one of his exes too when we had first gotten together.

honestly its not worth being with someone who doesnt appreciate u.

I would definitely feel some type of way to though cause idc how much or how often anything reminds you of an ex she's an ex for a reason and in the back of my mind personally I would feel like he still has a thing for her and would leave if she asked him to

Umm that's unacceptable!!! It's not okay at all. He wouldn't like that if you had a ex boyfriend tagging you in everything. Tell him there's no reason they should still even be in contact with one another.

@mymiracle, @naenae @shyannfleener told him something and got bitched at because he says "oh see i cant do anything so innocent without you getting mad sorry her and I had common interests and it made me think of her but the thought of keeping it bottled inside because I remember her and I talked about it and it was a big thing to us yes i am going to let her know I thought of her your just looking for a reason to get mad at me"

Like its so petty to me because I never do that to him but he is always the victim

yup that sounds sooo familiar. smh

excuse my language but he is an asshole he shouldn't be like that. I made my husband stop talking to a girl he said they were just friends but I know there was something more. to this day she is still blocked on his fb.