I've already asked family & friends about Christmas Dinner plans but everybody seems bitter, angry,…

I've already asked family & friends about Christmas Dinner plans but everybody seems bitter, angry, petty, selfish & unforgiving about things that can be talked out. All I know is don't show up at my door trying to eat when I clearly tried to tell you what dish to bring.....(I'm not spending my money for you & your family to eat!) and don't send your kids with somebody else cause they not eating either!!!