Ahhh...my boyfriend has 3 kids and already bought them a shit ton of stuff for Christmas with our money. So he just told me that he went out and bought them some more shit!!! Ummm...we are pretty broke for the next week and a half as it is and we aren't supposed to be getting each other anything for Christmas either soo it's just his kids that he's spending money on, and I understand that to a point...sorry for the rant...I'm new to this spending of my money on his kids I guess...sometimes I regret that about getting involved with him (I feel horrible for saying that, but it's true)😒
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@sarahadams330, that's a good idea. I'll have to remember that, thanks!!
My fiancé has a little girl, and it took getting used to especially cuz being pregnant made me feel like his daughters more important (because the hormones), and we've spent a lot on her for Christmas, and just in general. But what I've found helps, is when we're out looking for her I'll go look at baby stuff or I'll buy her a little something. Even if it's just a thing of bows, or socks. Just something to remind me, it's okay and she's just as important to him. But when he goes a little over board I just remind him, "we still have to get blah blah blah."
lol complain away taken on 3 that aren't your by birth is hard not everyone can handle it you got it :)
@momma11161407, yeah, I'm just starting to realize that now...I know I'm gonna have to suck it up cuz it's no ones fault but my own...thanks! (Feels good to complain sometimes tho lol 😏)
lol I can understand that pregnancy makes me say things I normally won't dream of saying also .....I've it makes you feel better in due in Feb and haven't bought anything either .......side note they maybe be his kids but you accepted that responsibility by dating him its not an easy job by any means and you have every right to complain but that's what happens with a blended family
@momma11161407, yeah, I hear u...and since they aren't my kids ( I know it sounds horrible 😖) and there's 3 of them and we have yet to buy anything for our baby due in February because it's being used for his kids stuff...I try not to say anything, but it seems like pregnancy is making me want to verbally vomit lol 😣
that is honestly one of the biggest fights I hear from my friends. his money my money....... thankfully hubby and I just do our money saves a lot of fighting and we communicate better about bills etc
You're welcome! It's hard not having you're baby here but seeing him with his, feels a little unfair but remember you're not alone! You still have your little one (: