my bf and I let him cry for a while and then he rubbed our sons sides and farts galore and past out he goes lol thank you

Sometimes all you can do is hold them and let them cry when they get really worked up and nothing is helping.

Singing, walking around with them, making shushing noises, pacifier, talking to them, rocking them, gently pat their butt when you're holding them, pat their back as if to burp them, or try swaddling.