It's just like I'm getting really sick of certain friends thinking they get to invite themselves to the hospital and to my house when baby is born, I never invited anyone except my parents. With my first son everyone bombarded us and he was sick for like the first 3 months becuase his immune system couldn't handle all the germs and I want to be different this time. I've been eating healthy exercising and I was to do it all healthy still when he is here so I plan on only having his daddy and my mother around him for the first week while my dad keeps my four year old then after that I plan on taking back my four year old and introducing him to his brother along with his aunts and uncle then after he's about 3 weeks old friends and other family members can visit.

no, I'm having the same feelings

no I am the same way

no.. its your decision if you dont want anyone around them then you dont have to have people around them...

no its your child.