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I am honestly deeply disappointed in my husband. He knows how much i have cried over the things his family has done. He…

I am honestly deeply disappointed in my husband. He knows how much i have cried over the things his family has done. He knows how the doctor told us to keep all stress away from me because i was showing early labor signs at 34 weeks and it was his family and their stress that was attacking me. I finally took them out of my life, he still stayed involved and being honest.. That hurt, but here i am trying to understand its his family.. But I'm your family too. And so is this baby and i expected him to protect us. No matter who it is.. But i let him be and let him be involved with them.

Yesterday we had our last OBGYN appointment before baby arrives and i told him to text his family and let them know what was the end result because we got an induction date. And he said no you can.

So my thoughts were okay. Im trying hard not to keep them out of the loop and im trying hard not to keep Emmalyn away from them. So i thought okay heres what ill do. Ill group message his mom, his grandparents and i included him. It was straight to the point and two seconds later his mother calls me. Really? So i said your mother is calling me, and his reply is answer it. REALLY?! So we talked about Emmalyn and i cut her off short by saying i needed to order at the drive through so goodbye.

Now his mother is up my ass again thinking everything okay. Shes all on my social media again literally commenting on everything two seconds after i post it.

Sterling why did you make me open a door that i didnt want open? Did you think if i was made to talk to her that it would be okay? Because its not . Now its worse. And now im flustered and hurt by you. Why would you put me in that situation?

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tahtahme

Tahtahme

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You should have said no. you should have let him send the initial text or else there should have been no text at all. You let him push you too easily, and now that they think its ok, its almost too late to say actually no you are not ok without seeming crazy 😞

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mommastone

Kristina

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Tell him this. They don't always know what we are thinking or how we feel even though we know they should by now.

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rhonda.otero

Rhonda Otero

Мама двоих (7 лет, 9 лет), ждёт третьего

Aww that sucks but seems like she is trying to be on your good side so just enjoy the butt kissing and ignore the rest... She's almost here and since you are trying to keep them some what in the loop they will be around. I feel like you should still talk to hubby so he can be the filter so when it becomes too much he can shut it down since that's his family and they won't hold it against him as they would you

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