*RANT* Gosh, my husband is such a pill to swallow today and he is on vacation and I am at work, go…

*RANT* Gosh, my husband is such a pill to swallow today and he is on vacation and I am at work, go figure he is the grumpy one. It just drives me crazy how I balance all the finances and pay all the bills, he doesn't even want to look, so I tell him everything he needs to know ahead of time like this is how much we will have each week, so I tell him this week it won't be a lot extra, bc I got paid and I make less than him, so he says "oh ok I'll lay low" while his 2 kids are here. Well needless to say he has either gone out to lunch, or dinner or both everyday for the last 4 days (and his kids eat a lot for being girls so it's always at least 30-60$) and we've been doing activities like ice skating and bowling, and now that I have to tell him we are running low until he gets paid, he is all grumpy because he can't take 200$ and take them to ski and snowboard (not to mention they have never done it before). "He says well you should be happy the place is closed, now I won't spend any money". I am just so tired of him putting everything on me when it comes to money and I told him, I don't want to talk to you until your ready to apologize, this is not my fault I don't spend anything over 20$ without him knowing, I am very stringent, and I'll be damned if you keep trying to put this on me. I am tired of always having to be the responsible one!! I should also mention I am 24 and he is quite a bit older than me, you'd think he would get it by now. SMH!