I love my fiancé but we've had a very rough 2 nearly 3 weeks. After talking and then life happening…
I love my fiancé but we've had a very rough 2 nearly 3 weeks.
After talking and then life happening and adding more stress, in the end, he just continuously bites my head off, mostly over things I can't control or for trying to help. This morning he noticed I was up before his 4:30 alarm. I've been up since 3.
NOW YOU WANT TO TALK ABOUT OUR FEELINGS? AT 4:30??
I briefly told him what I've been telling him almost 3 WEEKS. He said I never told him anything was wrong, I HAVE BEEN TELLING YOU FOR 3 WEEK EVERY TIME YOU ASKED, I CANT HELP IT IF YOU DONT LISTEN! He said he was sorry and would fix it, pretty sure he cried a bit. I get it, I'm stressed to but I haven't treated him any differently. Okay yeah, I try to find ways to help relieve stress for HIM.
I'm trying to keep my cool. I've been trying to keep my emotions on lock but really... 👊😒😢😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭
Alyce Curtin·
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I've been in your position with my Husband. With all the hormones you're having, he's having his own hormonal changes as well and it's added stress for both of you. If he got up and wanted to talk, even if it was 4:30am, take it as it is. Things will get better for the both of you if you keep talking it out and working on it, no matter how many times you may have to. I wanted so badly to leave my husband, we argued every day and night and I basically hated him but we kept trying and we kept talking it out (sometimes yelling) but it all worked out in the end and we still got married and we're going strong now and although he still annoys the hell out of me some days, he's such a great husband and is going to be an even better father and if I would have given up, I wouldn't have been able to see him change for the better and I'm thankful every day that we kept trying. So keep your head up and try to stay positive and keep pushing forward. If you said yes to marrying him then just remember why.