when someone does something for you & doesn't tell you until after it's done, you didn't ask for…

when someone does something for you & doesn't tell you until after it's done, you didn't ask for help not press the issue & then expects you to pay them back on top of all the curve balls life throws you & proceeds to collect on the holidays! Not like we have a baby coming in the new year or celebrating ourselves! I didn't ask for your help & yes we are grateful but doesn't mean you need to have ppl owe you for something they didn't ask for at all! #areyoukiddingme #ihateppl #owingwithoutaheadsup