I know @their.bomb.ass.mom ... I'm just so tired :/ and I have so much stuff to do at home and I can't get any of it done and I never have 1 second to relax and then my fiancé comes home from work and doesn't do a damn thing and when I ask him to help me with her he'll hold her for a few minutes and then hand her back or if he's holding her and she gets upset he acts like a jerk to her so I end up taking her back anyway. :/ I just need some rest.

Children usually act the worst around their mothers, or the people they are most comfortable with. My daughter does the same exact thing. Don't get too stressed! Although that's easier said than done.