Sorry but I just have to vent: I understand I can be grumpy and hormonal and it won't always be easy…
Sorry but I just have to vent:
I understand I can be grumpy and hormonal and it won't always be easy to be around me...but treating me like shit and putting me down in front of your family and me just dropping my head and trying to block out the negative you are saying isn't right...and the fact I can't even talk to you about this kind of stuff with out you getting all defensive and turning everything on me. I don't deserve this and I shouldn't be dealing with this kind of stress....no idea how to deal with this situation with out breaking things off...which I don't want to do, but I also don't want to be feeling depressed and like I'm the lowest and worse person ever :( anyone want to lend some extremely helpful advise! Please! I seriously need it!
Aubrey·
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Girl you will be ok!!! I went thru the same thing and the best advice that I could give is to take some time apart. Do you guys live together? If you're spending so much time with one another one may become smothered and instead of saying " He babe I love you but can you please get out my ass like a thong" they will revert to mean things to try and push you away... Try to give some space don't call or text him let him text you... Focus on you and your baby. The worst thing you can do is cause stress on your baby. We need you and your baby to be healthy. Surround yourself around nothing but positivity and people who love you!!
Paige Rue·
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@kyriemom, that is absolutely the best advise ever! Thank you! Yes we do live together but he's been out the past 4 days, then tonight he got drunk and started saying hurtful things to me...so guess he should stay at a parents or his friends house for a bit then we can hang out again sometime talk things out when we are calmer! And your right me and baby need to be healthy!!! Again thank you so much for the great advice! I really needed it!
Aubrey·
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No problem ☺️ if he doesn't stay with his parents or friends house then you leave. I left and went to my moms for a week. I came home we slept in separate rooms I didnt speak to him and he finally broke down and pleaded with me to talk to him and how it was killing him that I could go so long without talking to him. Don't let him treat you like shit!
Kristina·
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It's hard to give advice because I do not know both sides of the story. Just communicate. Talk about your problems and be considerate of the other persons feelings as well. It is hard to swallow pride but caring about someone is thinking of them and understanding them. Once that trust and stability is there, they feel more open and comfortable in expressing themselves and not feel threaten. Us women tend to react with emotions first before we think about it and sometimes it's an easy fix. Ignoring or leaving isn't the best way to communicate a point. That's why no one stays together. Find the root of the problem and work together.