@1750reed, my next consultant app is 28th Feb and I'm due 4th March and was meant to be having a section due to having abdominal surgery in March, I also have major autoimmune problems that cause me to go into anaphylaxis without an actual allergen if that makes sense. I just feel like because its not my first that I don't actually matter. I never had any of these problems with my other two. I'm dreading the actual birth this time x

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It's a complete nightmare , I saw a consultant at 16weeks who said she would advice a c section for me this time round due too me hem-raging in my last labour and leading too blood transfusion ect ect !! Also spoke about being sterilised at the same time due too my age and it being my 4th baby . Left there feeling confident and knew which way everything was going . Went back at 28weeks too a whole different story with a different consultant . I left in tears and made too feel I was putting the nhs out . This consultant basically said that I was using a c section as a excuse for a form or contraception and turned too my partner and said you should have the snip if you don't want any more . I was fumming . The reason being this will be his first baby and my 4 th after 3 with a precocious partner . I am hoping we will spend the rest of our life's together but who no's . He may go on too want more children or many other reasons . I left with the promise that someone will call me too see a lady called dot smith too go over everything in both cases normal delivery or c section then I would go on too see another consultant for a final decision . I am now 33 weeks 4 days and heard absolutely nothing . I ve rang the hospital left messages , emailed my midwife ect ect and even got through and been promised too receive a appointment in the next few days and still nothing . I am feeling so anxious . I had all 3 of my children normally and very little drugs so it's not that I am scared of its the fact that the hospital requested too see me as they saw me as a high risk After my last birth in 2011 and now messed with my head and left me hanging !! Is this really except able ??? Xxx

I agree @1750reed this is my third and I feel like I've just been left to it dispite being high risk and under consultant led care. This is also by far my worst pregnancy too... my two boys were a breeze x

I can not believe the lack of support you get the more baby's you have . I defiantly feel like I needed that extra support this time round . @baby316 I have had things with this pregnancy that I have never experienced before . Defo no more for me either @t446 and don't I am dreading the birth this time round I feel like I am carrying so much anxiety that it's out weighing the excitement of holding my baby in my arms 😁 xxx

@tt46, how are you and you little girl doing? xx

I agree I jus gave birth last week to my 4th daughter I suffered with spd n had an really horrific birth defo no more for me x

No you are defiantly right. This is my 2nd and I have been more sick and uncomfortable with this one. 😞