rant time... okay so, at my doctors, I have multiple people I see when I go in for check ups. there…
rant time...
okay so, at my doctors, I have multiple people I see when I go in for check ups. there is this one lady who I swear has this weird personal problem with me... I don't know why, but the first time I saw her she made a rude comment to me, and I saw her again today, and she was the same way....
Ive been having a lot of contractions since last night, and I asked her if she could check to see if I've dilated more since last Thursday, and she goes "we aren't doing that again until 40 weeks just drink more water you're probably dehydrated" I go okay.... well could I have a guesstimate on baby's weight, she kinda gives me a dirty look and goes "why?" I said "my mom and I are both kinda worried she's a big baby, and we want to make sure and put our mind at ease an approximate weight to see if I won't have any complications with delivering her vaginally and naturally" she makes another face at me and says "no we arent doing that until next week, alsonyoure body is meant to deliver vaginally so even if she is a big baby, like I don't think she is, then its what it was meant to be"
I just go alrighty then....
plus the nurse was concerned with my blood pressure and how high it was, she told me to lay on my left side until the Dr came in and when she did, she didn't even mention my blood pressure at all or check again like the nurse said she would ask her to do..... I even heard her ask her and she didn't even care to check again... she's a very disrespectful woman. & I feel like no woman should be treated with such disrespect at a Dr's place...
I'm a ftm, a young ftm also, who is scared and worried about my labor and delivery, I ask to check me and she tells me no, I ask to give me a guesstimate and she says no.... I'm pretty sure that when you're concerned, they should check you to make sure ... especially when you feel like you're more than 1cm dilated... last week I was 1cm and 50% effaced... because of my contractions and back pain, I thought I'd get checked just to be safe but nope... she wasn't worried enough about it.... & that pisses me off.
missing230user·
so talk to your doctor or hr department of your doctors office. all these people studying nursing, her & that attitude is expendable
Morgen Brown·
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I am when I go back Wednesday... I couldn't find anyone after the appointment to talk to ... @mango44
missing230user·
smh, when i had that issue i told the doctor as soon as she came in WITH the lady standing in the room. simply bc i wanted to be sure the situation would be addressed. some of these nurses can be so nasty and rude & can make your beautiful experience so ugly 😒
Arian Clark·
Мама сына (4 года), беременна (38 нед.)
I hate people like that if your going to have a bad attitude don't work with people get a job that allows you to be by yourself. a lot of people don't understand that the reason they making good money is because other people go to the doctor if everyone else stop coming she will be out of a job.
Morgen Brown·
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it wasn't the nurse, the nurse was nice it was the doctor that was like this! the nurse was super sweet! @mango44
Jay·
Мама троих детей, ждёт четвёртого
Your better than me, with my moods these days I probably would have been cursing her out and crying at the same time... That's her job to make sure everything is okay and that you feel comfortable with what's going on
Morgen Brown·
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exactly... I'm definitely making a complaint about her Wednesday when I go in. I'm demanding to see someone because this isn't right, I shouldn't be getting treated this way @akeelah_naomi_mommy
Karna Marie·
Мама двоих (младенец)
not true on the " your body only makes babies you can deliver". My son was bigger then he was measuring and I had 4th degree tearing and an episiotomy and they still have to pull him out with forceps and had an or preped because they weren't sure if they could pull him out... Don't wanna scare you but it's possible. On the other side unless you are measuring bigger then expected then by moth rules and because of insurance reasons can't do another ultrasound unless you wanna come out of pocket and pay for it. But I would talk to someone about you not feeling comfortable about that certain doctor...
Morgen Brown·
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I honestly try so much not to get like that 😂
I used to have a BAD temper and if I reacted the way I want to with her, I'd be kicked out of the doctor for good... I kept my cool and tried to slap her across the face.... I had to bite my tongue and sit on my hands because I was about to hit her... I just can't because I need to have this doctor.... 😂😂 I tried so hard ....@5ylasmommy,
missing230user·
😧😧😧 oh nooo, that's unacceptable. i would have lit her ass up. like listen, your ass is getting PAID to be here so lose the attitude bc my insurance is putting that good money in your pocket to address my concerns every time i visit. so fuck that bad day you seem to be having, either suck that shit up or take a walk. but if you're gonna be in this profession getting PAID to address concerns of your patients, i want my insurance money's worth. so start checking.. hell no
missing230user·
😂😂😂 @ you sat on your hands. she would have deserved it.
Morgen Brown·
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that's why I was annoyed with her cause I'm just like okay i am a TINY girl, if she's big, my mom and I are both worried that I can't deliver her and if I can , we want to make sure I'm not gonna have complications while doing so, and I told her that and she just so oh no we can't do that @karnawest
Karna Marie·
Мама двоих (младенец)
unfortunately like I said they won't do another one unless there is a medical reason. Those ultrasounds can be off by a few lbs as well there is really no way to know how big or how well your pelvis opens until you are in active labor
Karna Marie·
Мама двоих (младенец)
@countyourblessings05
Morgen Brown·
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@mango44, 😂😂😂 i should've let her have it... but I tried so hard not to get all worked up .. I should've stuck up for myself with this.. but I don't wanna get kicked out of this practice because of a stupid bitch lol
missing230user·
ctfu i seriously commend your restraint ✊🏽 i can't say that I would've been as patient lmao "bitch uh uhn, start checking! where's your tools?! i need to lay back??" lmao help me help you 😂
Morgen Brown·
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ahaha 😂😂😂
I'll start stripping right now hold up 😂😂😂 @mango44
Jay·
Мама троих детей, ждёт четвёртого
Your better than me I would have been sitting on my hands too lmao I can't deal with ignorance ... And lmao @mango44 seriously! Like let me get myself ready for Yu !
missing230user·
lmfaooo yes! like fuck that gown, i don't need it today. i think it'll be in your way, we don't want that 😂😂😂😂 like you good? you comfy? can you see?? lmaoo ugh 😒
Morgen Brown·
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before I got pregnant I took no shit from anyone, now I'm just like a little shy girl who's like okay it is what it is... like I'd get in full blown fights with people, and now I'm just like I'm sorry please don't yell at me 😂😂😂 super emotional whereas before I could care less if I hurt you 😂😂😂
this baby made me mellow out and not have a black heart anymore 😂 @5ylasmommy
Morgen Brown·
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hahaha 😂😂 its alright though, she will get what's coming Wednesday because not only am I gonna say something but papa bear will be there and he doesn't like the way she's treated momma bear. so he's about to pull out claws and make sure they do what I ask... he's NOT one to make mad... and he's definitely mad at her.. @mango44
missing230user·
yes!! i know that's right! lmao pleaseee let me know how that goes! 😒 that little heifer. i'm mad right along with papa bear 😂😂
Jay·
Мама троих детей, ждёт четвёртого
Lol aww I am usually extra nonchalant about most situations but I hate when people disregard my feelings !! It's like it pushes a button lol my boyfriend is usually there to tell me I'm overreacting 😂 when usually it's him who is acting crazy
Morgen Brown·
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@mango44,
oh I definitely will!
we will see how this goes.
@5ylasmommy exactly 😂😂😂 that's exactly how my bf is with me.
Rachel·
Мама двоих (2 года, 11 лет), ждёт третьего
So as a third time mom I also went through the same thing as a 22 year old ftm. I do think they can be judgemental no matter which baby you are on. I've had different issues with each pregnancy and it seems as though the dr and nurses only care about a paycheck. I find more useful information on YouTube and Google then I do at the dr even though I am relatively happy with the dr I have now.