hello Ladies , so I'm currently trying on my 1st child I am 22 years old , my fertile days start on…

prenatals, and pre-seed lube

never heard of pre-seed lube lol and maybe my folic acid will help

I wouldn't think about it and just have fun... like have some drinks one night and come home and have the best sex ever and boom

haha good way to think about it , it usually is just stressful when u get ur hopes up, I stopped worrying and just trying but I think I gave myself a miscarriage from stress I was probably already a week or 2 pregnant , and I hear the deeper he cums In u the better

see mines happened when i least expected it.. its funny because but not funny ... bae was sick so i called myself taking care of him =/ 10.13 ... apparently i ovulated like 10.20 .. like those lil things held out strong.. lol

damn , well I think I been messing up, I just had an agreement with my man any time after I ovulate , no drinking , eating the wrong foods , or stressing for those few weeks until I know if I'm pregnant or not

Deffinetely prenatals. & i agree with @mumof2 Try not to think about "trying" just let lose and have you some fun with your man. After the deed is done lay on your bed with your legs up against the wall or headboard for 10 mins 😊 @kimmieg9385

Prenatals for sure being number one thing and also have lots of sex but don't make it a chore the more often you have sex the less stressful it is this is my calendar the Month I got pregnant down to all the times I was intimate helps to track that in a period app also and I used an ovulation kit which makes it super easy ! I used a 7 day kit ! And it tells you 24-48 hours in advance your gonna ovulate then you just have sex within that time ...& on your fertile days and the day after and that's also how I got pregnant that month !

great! how much do ovulation kits generally cost ? and can u take them to early ?

Prenatals, no smoking, sex everyday. Took me about 5 months.

well everyone is different and will conceive at different tones @alexinwonderland if we all got pregnant at the same time lol that wouldn't be cool, but I read that sex every other day or 2 days is better because it gives the sperm time to build a lot up, also my sex drive is never that high for some reason

@kimmieg9385, I know, just sharing what worked for me. Good luck.

They're not expensive I used a cheap store brand one ! They look like pregnancy tests ! This is one I was using this is what a positive ovulation test looks like ! If you do a 7 day kit you test the week of ovulation starting from beginning of the week for 7 days at 2pm you have to hold your pee before actually peeing on this and make sure to do it 2pm every day

That's my positive ovulation kit test and I'm convinced this is why I got pregnant the 3 months before this I was trying I disnt get pregnant the month I used this I was preggo and I had sex before this as well don't only have sex when u get a positive ! Continue to have a sex and make things fun

Hope this helps love good luck :) these are all my tests before my positive ! The circle window is the control window square is the test window so you wanna get a line just as dark as the control window for a positive ovulation test or slightly lighter ! Read the directions on the kit they help. And according to your result on this you'll ovulate 24-48hrs after u took this so start baby dancing then when u see that

haha thanks @chelsearomano for the helpful information , I just saved the screen shots , thanks everyone for being so helpful

@kimmieg9385, your welcome I know what it's like took me 3 times before I got pregnant and it came to a point where I stopped stressing so much and I decided to try and ovulation kit and when I stopped trying so hard and went with the flow it happened unexpectedly every time I thought I was pregnant I wasn't this time I thought I wasn't and I was by the time I found out I was 5 weeks pregnant ! In that time period I was drinking etc barely eating ! Studies show early on a few drinks when u didn't know u were pregnant and not eating proper doesn't affect too much because the baby is small and doesn't require as much nutrients yet ! So don't stress it ! The way I look at miscarriages is if it's meant to be it will if it's not it won't !

Have faith God bless good luck xoxo💛