Ladies any of you have a bad relationship with your MIL? How do you deal? I'm dreading Christmas cuz I don't wanna put up with her!!!
@cameronjamarsmommy2016, that's so true and what I've been fighting for but tbh I have more balls than he will ever have. he Hates confrontation. she was feeding my son cheetos at 3MONTHS!!! I was furious he said nothing and she said she is grandma and rules don't apply to her
@yahuahsdaughter, it's sad, but I could care less about her I just hate being around people I don't like!
As long as he allows her to be disrespectful like that she will continue. She has to see that the two of you have joined forces and that you are the LADY in his life. If boundaries are set he has to put his foot down and support your feelings etc. Just had an issue with my sister n law and she was looking for my husband to side with her. he put his foot down and let her know....he has to do the same in a respecful way...
that sucks i also have the same problem except mine doesn't even care about my kids. she pretends to care but i can tell a fake affection. when she calls its only for her son to do something for her or to ask for a favor of me but never even asks for my baby girl. i gave up long time ago. never did anything to her
@jashmen, I've done it all. I've literally given up already. she said she's grandma so she can do what she wants and my rules don't apply to her. I guess that's how the Mexican culture works idk. and my kids dad never says anything cuz he feels stuck in the middle
say listen😠!!! I am the mother of the kids that you love and they need to see you love and support me! kids are more sensitive than adults and pick up on it!!
@bets, she ignores me but then wants to be all over my kids it irks the hell outta me, it's hard not to deal with her
then you take your baby because the rules do apply. thats rediculous!!