I almost died in labor and that's why he doesn't want to have anymore which I understand but I wasn't an only child and I think it'd be very lonely @rachelt1993

My husband was the same way but now that our son is almost a year old he has changed his mind! He said we could try for another in a few years :) I think it's just so hard when they are that young and then it gets easier when they get older, and also it's sad to watch our baby grow up because it went by toooo fast!