I have tried and tried and tried to please my MIL and to help her and to deal with what her and her youngest son says and acts towards me. I have said nothing to them about it to keep from coming off as the bitchy daughter in law. Tonight she said im ungrateful, that I dont do anything around the house, that im snappy and bitchy all the time and I act like a child. I finally snapped on her and yelled at her. And then got told that im an even bigger bitch and I cant yell at her like that in her own home. Fine. Ill stay in the bedroom again. Ill clean even more around the house since im a maid apparently. And I wont say a word. And when we move out? See if I bring MY child around that bitch. im so done.