Me and my daughter, Vivien Lee. She will 5 months the 27th. I am extremely proud to say I got out of an abusive relations with her sperm donor (biological father), before I even knew i was pregnant! Won't get to far into details with it, but I will say that I finally had enough when he reached over me and burnt my cats ear with a lighter that I had rescued from 2 abusive homes before me.. His exact words to me when he saw I was upset and crying, 'that's what you get for giving the cat more attention than me!' I think I did the right thing by leaving, others don't and think I should give part custody of my daughter. I haven't had any help from him and don't want any. He's not on the birth certificate or anything.