@mamabee999,

thank you so much, I'm glad someone understands!! you as well!!! 😘😊

@madsmomma12 its awsome, but just done get head of your self before I met my girlfriend I was in a really bad relationship.. I had my son with a man I met only once we are friends of friends and he knows he is the father but he choose not to step up so I never pushed the issue cause my son is worth more then all the drama.. I was with my ex for 4 years on and off it was really bad he was abbusive mentally physically and emotionally it got we broke up six months before I got pregnant and got back together when I was 5 months he was ok at first after I had my son he acted different It got really bad he stopped Comming around, made every excuse in the book then tells me that he never accepted my son and bashed me constantly as a mother and women.. He pretended to get his act together and propose to me I broke it off and found my girlfriend she has been with me since like like a month before I broke it off with my ex she was my Bestfriend at that moment and I fell in love with her.. And I was really scared at first but she has stepped up in every way a father should and I couldn't ask for a Better father to my son.. ❤️ I pray all goes well with you &I Your new family 😘

thank you! I just get iffy about it. my parents don't know, because they think that I might get pregnant again. we aren't doing anything at all and I'll be getting put on the birth control, still weighing my options though. It's amazing how someone can step in when you need them most! @mamabee999

You have a real man, No there is NO problem with you dating and being a new mommy. My son is 8 months I met my girlfriend when he was 6 months.. From the moment I met her she has been nothing but amazing to us both at first I was worried too but she swept me off my feet made being a mother just a lil easier I'm 19 & was a single mother from the moment I got pregnant it was difficult for me but I always did it for my son..

cares** @emeliaday

I was in a very emotionally abusive relationship before I had my daughter. her father has yet to contact me. he hasn't even seen what she looks like or anything. I broke up with him in September because he kept making up excuses as to why he couldn't come see me. he wanted me to drive to him. I was 8 months pregnant and not wanting to get out much because I was working 40 hours a week and exhausted he worked one part time job and he was always complaining he was tired. this guy hasn't complained about his job, being exhausted from working 12 + hours a day and he is very helpful. he has shown me that he genuinely cars.

My boyfriend left the day he found out we were pregnant. I am choosing not to date until awhile after baby comes. I have enough stress without adding male drama back in.

@mommmyof1, that's so sad.. that's why I'm hesitant. he seems like he's ok that I have a child, but I don't wanna risk it.

@madsmomma12, yea I feel you when I was pregnant I dated someone but when my baby was 3 days old he left

@mommmyof1,

Thanks girl, it's so hard because my family keeps telling me to not get into anything. we both agreed we are taking things slow.

No be the best you can be as a mom you have to be happy too