I honestly see allot of young ladies trying to get pregnant (and the paartner is already set in some…
I honestly see allot of young ladies trying to get pregnant (and the paartner is already set in some ways) but honestly 98% of the time your relationship gets worse instead of better , I suggest you really know your partner inside and outside like a book , before trying for a baby because if you don't , you will find that your pregnancy can play a big part of your relationship and it can get ugly.
missing145user·
agreed, not knocking young people trying to get pregnant, I'm young, BUT even in a really decent, stable relationship pregnancy definitely takes a really strong couple, especially when the baby arrives it becomes a whole different world and I don't think some people really understand that.
Desiree'·
Мама сына-младенца, беременна (16 нед.)
I totally agree and I hope my message wasn't coming off as me knocking young people. I'm just trying to shine some light on something I see all to well . but completely agree .
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well I'm young @mommyoftwosoon and my pregnancy was planned out because my hubby actually WANTS a baby and this will be our 1st kid... now this only happens if you decide to get pregnant by a jerk that parties, drinks constantly, goes out with friends 24/7.. ect.... and people wonder why i dont date guys around my age because half of them are soooo immature. . now my man might be older than me but he's a hard working man and on his days off we go out together or stay home.... but in my opinion that happens when you decide to get pregnant by a dush bag that has bad habits ... In my case i know my man inside & out.. i know what he likes and dsnt like all of that but its different when a guy wants a baby from you and is willing to make life with you.
Desiree'·
Мама сына-младенца, беременна (16 нед.)
lol , I get YOUR point of view and I'm not here to debate , and everyone have their own story and OBVIOUSLY this doesn't apply to you . . I was only speaking on something I've seen way to many times . . I was only saying that getting pregnant even if it was planned need to make sure they know the person they have a baby with first , that was all @melox_90
Jess·
I agree with you @mommyoftwosoon i feel as if a lot of people, younger or older, believe that a baby will fix things and honestly its just a whole new battle and all new stresses that really test even the best relationships
missing268user·
I have learned in my relationship that it takes one strong couple to make it, I'm only 7 weeks and the hormones are enough to scare anyone away from me, but my fiance just brings me flowers and ask me if I'm done lol.