ladies i need some advice. I just found out that the father of my child has been lying to his gf of…
ladies i need some advice. I just found out that the father of my child has been lying to his gf of a year. she doesnt even know hes been to a hearing and acknowledged paternity or anything. last thing she knew is I was sending paperwork in. my question is. would you message the poor girl and tell her the truth? that he acknowledged paternity without a dna test and told me he didnt wanna be in my sons life or just let her find out on her own? my heart hurts for this girl. I cant even imagine this big of a deal being kept from me.
Sarah krashin·
Мама троих детей
I would deff tell her and if you have proof send her that as well she needs to know that
stephanie·
Мама дочки-младенца
I'd want to know. so if she's trying to see a future she'll know
dana·
@damiensmommy2015, I would wait until u have the proof n then let her know! I would want to know! I had ppl know the truth n looked the other way
Kira·
Мама сына (12 лет)
I'd personally stay out of it. It's not really your issue its there's. And the fact that he denied paternity he will prob continue denying it to her. Me I would just focus on caring for my baby the best way I could without him.
Kalyn·
Мама сына-младенца
I have the paperwork saying he acknowledged paternity without dna testing but thats it. @mrsmoore @steph11 @danad269 she's asked his mom when shes talked to her but his mom hasnt said anything cause hes her son and not her place. @momx2 he acknowledged that he was the father. by no means would I tell her in hopes of him being around us. honestly I wouldn't let him around at this point. I just feel bad for this girl cause all the lies hes telling her.
Kira·
Мама сына (12 лет)
I'm sure the situation will come to the light without you having to say anything to her. She will eventually see him for who he really is.
Sarah krashin·
Мама троих детей
I would tell her so she knows what kind of man she's with god forbid they have a child and he puts her in the same boat it may not be your relationship but she should at least know that he very well does have a child, a ex lied to me about it on of his bm's called me and told me and I was happy she did not the kind if person I want in my life or around my kids or to have kids with
dana·
@damiensmommy2015, ya my exs mom lies also for her son! I was lied 2 for 2 yrs by ppl, so if she is asking his mom she doesn't totally believe him n is looking for the truth!
Kalyn·
Мама сына-младенца
his mama is a good lady she comes and visits damien and has been on my side since day one. she is beyond pissed at her son. @danad269 I have no idea what I would even say to her! she has a very small window she can even have kids in and even then she may not be able to get pregnant. @mrsmoore
dana·
@damiensmommy2015, idk I don't know them. I am just going by my experience n his mom back me up to my face but still didn't say anything to him! I would wipe my sons ass he ever treated a woman like that! Not just sit back n watch it